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Friday, January 22, 2010

Healthy diet: Do's & Don'ts


Just recommendations!!!

Did you know that you should avoid consuming dairy products along with with citrus foods? Or that starving yourself actually makes the body retain fat? These simple dietary tips can make a big difference to your wellness, so sit up and take notice.

Try to eat your breakfast within one hour of waking up, as it will help speed up your metabolism. Metabolism slows down during the night and breakfast helps kick-start it up again. If you wait longer, your body begins to go into starvation mode and your metabolism begins to slow down even more.

Eat bread along with the crust, as the crust contains 6 times more antioxidants than the light-coloured innards of the bread.

Drink lemon juice and honey in warm water early in the mornings, it reduces water retention and helps in digestion.

Avoid drinking cold water or cold beverages after a meal, as it leads to indigestion: Drinking cold water after the meal solidifies the oily food that you have just consumed. This slows down the digestion. It is best to drink hot soup or warm water after a meal.

Eat water-filled foods like cantaloupe (kharbooja), watermelon, pineapple, spinach and cabbage as they are low in calories and will make you feel fuller.

Eat fruits and vegetables with the skins, as there are many nutrients just under the skin. Skins also add fibre and texture to your food. Also, it's healthier to have a fruit instead of its juice -- the juice gives you no fibre.

Add 1 teaspoon of wheat bran (chokker) per roti in wheatflour to increase insoluble fibre in your diet. Most people think of fruits and vegetables when they think of fibre, but actually it is the fibre in wheat bran that weight loss specialists talk about when they suggest fibre intake. The fiber in fruits and vegetables, though quite useful, is in much lesser quantity.

Wash vegetables before cutting or chopping to minimize nutrient loss.

Eat slowly, as it prevents overeating. To slow down, put down your cutlery after every two bites. And chewing well helps to digest food better than just swallowing it -- it helps you avoid overeating.

Try an occasional fast, as it gives the digestive system a rest and refreshes the senses, mind, and consciousness. According to the Ayurveda, fasting strengthens both will power and bodily health.

When breaking a fast, avoid eating lots of heavy foods as they can cause water retention, blood pressure fluctuations and toxin accumulation.

Eat moderately, as the stomach needs working space -- fill it half with food, a fourth with liquids and leave the rest for air.

When you feel the urge to snack on something, have a sugar-free chewing gum -- it can help to control the appetite, decrease cravings for snacks and reduce calorie intake, while helping to maintain alertness and energy levels through the afternoon.

Avoid eating fatty foods before a workout, as they are slow to digest and remain in the stomach for a long time. Fat content in the food will pull blood into the stomach because that aids in fat digestion. This can cause cramping and discomfort while working out.

Avoid eating too many types of food in a single meal, as conflicting foods like dairy products and citrus fruit may upset the digestion.

Vegetables should be lightly sauted (a method of cooking using small amount of fat in a shallow pan over high heat) to preserve nutrition.

Honey should not be cooked, as it slows digestion that way. The molecules become a non-homogenised glue that adheres to mucous membranes and clogs subtle channels, producing toxins. Adding honey to a cup of hot tea (not boiling) or salad dressing is acceptable.

Do not combine iron-rich foods with dairy products like paneer as that leads to nutrient loss. To increase your iron levels, have a lot of citrus fruit -- Vitamin C adds to the iron absorption.

Consuming too much red meat can lead to hypertension and heart problems hence should be had sparingly.

Non-vegetarians should avoid dairy products like cheese and paneer along with meat intake. Non-veg food is high in cholesterol, hence it's important to avoid other foods which can have an additive effect on one's cholesterol, like dairy products.

Choose brown rice instead of normal rice, it helps in weight loss.

Avoid starvation at all costs, as this signals your body to get into famine mode and it retains fat more effectively.

An all-protein diet with the exclusion of carbohydrates can mess up your digestive system, leading to kidney and liver disorders. Non-vegetarians should eat foods rich in enzymes such as papaya and pineapple to help in the digestion of proteins.

Instant acidity remedy: Try eating chilled banana, chilled sabudana (sago) pudding or chilled curd. If these foods are unavailable to you then drink lots of water and eventually the acidity will subside.

High blood pressure home remedy: Eat a clove of garlic each day.

If you are on a diet and feel like having a snack, eat an apple. If you aren't hungry enough to eat an apple, you aren't hungry enough for a snack.

Don't have fruit immediately after a meal. It will bloat your stomach with air. It is advisable to have fruits at least one hour before a meal.

Don't bathe immediately after a meal. Blood flow to your hands and legs increases, reducing the circulation around stomach and slowing down digestion.

Don't have tea immediately after a meal. Tea after a meal makes protein digestion difficult.

Do not substitute water with other fluids like coffee, soda, tea and juice. All these contain caffeine which is a known diuretic and will cause fluid loss. Also, the best time to drink water is 1.5 hours before and 1.5 hours after meals. Adjusting water intake to meal-times prevents the blood from becoming concentrated. Concentrated blood draws water from the cells around it.

Uncooked cabbage restricts the conversion of sugar and carbohydrates into fat and hence helps in weight reduction.

To decrease the craving for sweets, pop a small piece of jaggery in your mouth after meals.

Saunf (aniseed), methi (fenugreek) powder and laung (cloves) help to balance the blood sugar and control hunger. These spices are also a good source of bioflavonoids that are antioxidants and protect the liver from getting damaged.

Skipping meals is bad if you are in your 20s and worse if you are in your 30s or beyond. During the 20s, skipping meals doesn't affect your body as your metabolic rate is high and you tend to lose weight faster. But do keep in mind that you will lose out on essential nutrients and your haemoglobin levels will drop. After the age of 30, skipping meals to lose weight has a reverse effect, as your metabolism slows down.

It's not advisable to check your weight morning and evening everyday, as you will tend to get obsessed about it and start bingeing because food is constantly on your mind. Fix a time every few days or once a week, and monitor your weight. Make it a point to weigh yourself at exactly that time each time.

For people who are anaemic, cook food in iron pots to increase iron content. Vitamin C (ascorbic acid) in oranges, grapefruits, tomatoes, broccoli and strawberries increases iron absorption, so incorporate these into your diet. Tea or coffee inhibits iron absorption; so avoid having them with meals.

Drink a lot of Water. Contrary to popular belief, excess water does not lead to water retention.

Choose wine, whisky, vodka and rum over beer. Team them with water or soda, not aerated drinks and juices.

Frequent small meals are better than large meals at long intervals. Having frequent small meals will help you decrease your food cravings and also decrease acidity. Long gaps in meals aggravate acidity and thus you tend to put on weight.

Avoid tinned foods to keep your weight in check. Processed and tinned foods have high fat content and contain larger amounts of salt and various chemicals added for longer preservation. All of these lead to obesity.

Avoid excess salt at night, it is harmful for hypertension and even aggravates water retention.

Pick roasted food over fried food.

Munching while watching television is the worst thing you can do to yourself. Not only do you eat wrong, you also end up eating much more than required. If you tend to munch, then opt for healthier alternatives like fruit

--Courtesy: Internet, Rediff.com

Saturday, May 23, 2009

Am I with a right person? - Nice Article

Got this as a Fwd & thought of sharing this as these days there are many queries about Love... N.B: Personal opinions differ...

Am I with a right partner? - Nice Article

During a seminar, a woman asked," How do I know if I am with the right person?" the author then noticed that there was a large man sitting next to her so he said, "It depends. Is that your partner?" In all seriousness, she answered "How do you know?"
Let me answer this question because the chances are good that it's weighing on your mind replied the author. Here's the answer.

Every relationship has a cycle...In the beginning; you fall in love with your partner. You anticipate their calls, want their touch, and like their idiosyncrasies. Falling in love wasn't hard. In fact, it was a completely natural and spontaneous experience. You didn't have to DO anything. That's why it's called "falling" in love.

People in love sometimes say, "I was swept of my feet.." Picture the expression. It implies that you were just standing there; doing nothing, and then something happened TO YOU. Falling in love is a passive and spontaneous experience. But after a few months or years of being together, the euphoria of love fades. It's a natural cycle of EVERY relationship.

Slowly but surely, phone calls become a bother (if they come at all), touch is not always welcome (when it happens), and your spouse's idiosyncrasies, instead of being cute, drive you nuts. The symptoms of this stage vary with every relationship; you will notice a dramatic difference between the initial stage when you were in love and a much duller or even angry subsequent stage. At this point, you and/or your partner might start asking, "Am I with the right person?" And as you reflect on the euphoria of the love you once had, you may begin to desire that experience with someone else. This is when relationships breakdown.

The key to succeeding in a relationship is not finding the right person; it's learning to love the person you found.

People blame their partners for their unhappiness and look outside for fulfilment. Extramarital fulfilment comes in all shapes and sizes. Infidelity is the most common. But sometimes people turn to work, a hobby, a friendship, excessive TV, or abusive substances. But the answer to this dilemma does NOT lie outside your relationship. It lies within it. I'm not saying that you couldn't fall in love with someone else. You could. And TEMPORARILY you'd feel better. But you'd be in the same situation a few years later. Because (listen carefully to this): The key to succeeding in a relationship is not finding the right person; it's learning to love the person you found.


SUSTAINING love is not a passive or spontaneous experience. You have to work on it day in and day out. It takes time, effort, and energy. And most importantly, it demands WISDOM. You have to know WHAT TO DO to make it work. Make no mistake about it. Love is NOT a mystery. There are specific things you can do (with or without your partner). Just as there are physical laws of the universe (such as gravity), there are also laws for relationships. If you know and apply these laws, the results are predictable. Love is therefore a "decision". Not just a feeling.

Remember this always: God determines who walks into your life. It is up to you to decide who you let walk away, who you let stay, and who you refuse to let GO!!

Thursday, May 14, 2009

21 - For U!

ONE. Give people more than they expect and do it cheerfully.

TWO. Marry a man/woman you love to talk to. As you get older, their conversational skills will be as important as any other.

THREE. Don't believe all you hear, spend all you have or sleep all you want.

FOUR. When you say, 'I love you,' mean it.

FIVE. When you say, 'I'm sorry,' look the person in the eye.

SIX. Be engaged at least six months before you get married.

SEVEN. Believe in love at first sight.

EIGHT. Never laugh at anyone's dreams. People who don't have dreams don't have much.

NINE. Love deeply and passionately. You might get hurt but it's the only way to live life completely.

TEN.. In disagreements, fight fairly. No name calling.

ELEVEN. Don't judge people by their relatives.

TWELVE. Talk slowly but think quickly.

THIRTEEN! .. When someone asks you a question you don't want to answer, smile and ask, 'Why do you want to know?'

FOURTEEN. Remember that great love and great achievements involve great risk.

FIFTEEN. Say 'bless you' when you hear someone sneeze.

SIXTEEN. When you lose, don't lose the lesson.

SEVENTEEN. Remember the three R's: Respect for self; Respect for others; and Responsibility for all your actions.

EIGHTEEN. Don't let a little dispute injure a great friendship.

NINETEEN. When you realize you've made a mistake, take immediate steps to correct it.

TWENTY. Smile when picking up the phone. The caller will hear it in your voice

TWENTY- ONE. Spend some time alone.

Thursday, February 19, 2009

Do's and dont's for a successful relationship

Do's and dont's, a couple should follow in order to strengthen their relationship:

# Remember, there is no point experiencing a feeling or an emotion when you don't share it with the one you love.

# You don't have to share emotions that you don't feel merely because the spouse expects you to say nice things. But every time you feel it, share it.

# All of us are perfectly capable of expressing emotions. Remember how easy you find it to blow up at your spouse when you're angry! Anger is also an emotion. If you have the wherewithal to express anger, so too can you express love.

# Expressing love is not a sign of weakness or mushiness. The more mature you are, the more you express your love for your spouse.

# Not saying, 'I love you' does not mean you love your spouse any less, but saying it means you are tuning into your partner's emotional needs and that you care enough to do so.

# Not expressing love means the intimacy in your relationship will be low, and when this happens, the temptation to look for intimacy outside the marriage is very high.

# All human beings need periodic affirmation, and the best way you can affirm your partner in marriage is showing you care enough to take the effort, in other words by being nurturing. Share the events of your day every day with your partner. This way each of you knows what's happening in the other's life and you feel more connected to each other.

# Stay connected. Call each other at least a couple of times a day so you can touch base with each other even on a crowded day.

# Don't expect your partner to assume your love. Show it.

# When you're feeling down and troubled is probably the best time to share your feelings, not with the intention of getting solutions, but just to feel your partner's love for you.

Courtesy: Rediff.com (Feb 12, 2009) http://specials.rediff.com/getahead/2009/feb/12sld1-relationship-counsellor-dr-nagaswami-speaks.htm
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